Beyond the Veil : The Paradox within

When I decided to start this blog, I was advised to tackle sensitive subjects that are deemed acceptable by societal norms. However, I have come to realise that the topics that truly require attention and discussion are often swept under the rug. Witnessing the harsh realities of harassment, threats, and unimaginable crimes against vulnerable individuals connects me to the aspirations I hold, using my words in addressing what needs to be spoken for. It's time to confront the uncomfortable truths that our society often overlooks.

The incidents of rape, aggression, assault, harassment, and inhumane abuses are not unique to our society, they're a global concern. Every day, we're exposed to graphic reports that make us question the foundation of our society. It's disheartening to see how these threats are often downplayed or overlooked, leaving victims to suffer in silence. This isn't just a women's issue, it's a societal problem that affects us all. The way our society is shaped and the values we foster have a far reaching impact on individuals and communities. When women take a stand for themselves, they're criticised and threatened, while the real issues are overlooked. The difference in interpreting the same statements and situations between men and women throws a light on the mentality of the society; being drunk justifies his behaviour while the same blames her for what she went through. Voices are silenced thinking how it will be interpreted in the society and what consequences will taking a stand bear. This reasons why terms like Feminism are commonly misconstrued as anti-male, and fail in promoting equality and providing cerebral opportunities for women.

India has strong safeguards to protect its citizens, but the implementation is often lacking. The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, the Dowry Prohibition Act, and the Sexual Harassment of Women at Workplace Act are just a few examples that aim to safeguard women's rights. However, the constant misuse of these laws, underreporting due to societal pressures, and mistrust in the justice system have led to a spike in incidents. It's high time that our society changes its foundation and address the subject at hand. It's unfortunate to note that one in five women have experienced forced rape or attempted rape. The World Health Organisation estimates that upto 69% women have experienced physical abuse by their partners at some point in their lives. In Delhi , the core of the nation and its capital, estimates to have approximately 90% of its women acquainted with sexual harassment. This goes beyond the boundary of a certain state, it is prevalent across our country including popular cities like Mumbai and Bengaluru. The question is why are women raised to be good wives and acceptable members of the society while boys aren't raised to be good husbands and inclusive to subjects of grave sensitivity? 

Unfortunately, this isn't only a gendered issue, many victims of these crimes are not just women; they're also children, men, and marginalised communities. The lack of voices within, unending oppression, and assault within homes and proximity are stark reminders of our society's failures. The generational evolution has not translated to meaningful change, and it's time for us to take a step back and reassess our values. It is not a joke for a person to get threats on their lives and safety, especially when they are at the receiving end. It is not a problem of lack of self defence, instigation or provocation; it's the contradictory mindset of being critical to those who suffer while being lenient towards those who harm. It's not a national or regional problem but also a global problem. 

As a progressive society we need to address the urgency of the situation, we need to recognise the gaps in our laws and implementation. We must work towards creating a society that fosters empathy, understanding, and justice. It's time for us to take a stand against harassment, threats, and crimes, and to support those who are vulnerable. We owe it to ourselves, our children, and future generations to create a safer, more equitable world. We must create a safer environment and institute uniformity across the globe and invest in peace and recognition of those who are at the shorter end of the stick. 

The issues of harassment, threats, and crimes are complex and multidimensional, having far-reaching consequences on mental, social and physical state of health. By acknowledging these problems, understanding the laws, and working together, we can create a society that values human rights and dignity. It's time for us to speak out, to take a stand, and to demand change. Only then can we build a society that truly protects and empowers its people.

Until next time

Signing off,

Levishka Khurana